Friday, March 06, 2009
Is it tat difficult to move o N?
Kinda in love with the new single of yang cheng ling- dai wo zhou.
it means, bring me away from there.
Sad love stories are always around me..why???
hehe..being a good listener is not easy though, gotta listen to unpleasant storiess..
then have to actually analyse and comfort them..=/
but, i alrdy get used to it lor, since when people don't come and find me when they've got a prob..LOL
couple of my frens came to me telling me that, they can't let go of that someone eventhough the truth is alrdy shown as the someone alrdy fell for another person or in a r/ship.
why must it be so difficult?
If it's not difficult, then what's love right?
even if u have been liking the same damn person for 2,3 years and knowing that she/he has a bf/gf, it's still hard to actually let go..different ppl actually take different time frame to receover from it...
why is it so hard..?
when we're in love...
- we tend to be very blind
- we tend to believe wat the someone says
- we tend to give ourself tonnes of excuses
- we tend to ignore the facts.
- we tend to get addicted to it just like phenylethylamine (PEA) in chocolate..
Hee..tat's why we love chocolate and being in love!!
Coz it's so addictive..
however, it would change when 2 come together, things actually become much more difficult, u need to commimt, u need to live not only with urself but always need to think of wat he/she is thinking..and be considerate..
it somehow very challenging to be in a r/ship...and
it's way harder than moving on i suppose...
Mo Ving On is such a long and annoying process as..
we keep ourself waiting for something that's not gonna happen,
it hurts everytime and it is dissapointing..
nothing seems like wat's on taiwan drama anymore..HAHA
i think all i wanna say is " stop crying for not being able to forget about that person"
in another persepctive, being in love is quite fun ;)
stop..waiting and stop expecting is wat u really have to do in order to be happy while u're in such situation..
P/S: live for urself =)